Owner: Between the Sheets URL:www.betweensheets.net Join Date: Tue, 27 Feb 2007 21:16:57 -0600 Rating:0 Site Description: Ivy has been writing erotica and informing the vanilla since the tender age of 12. Her writing is not only titilating and provocative, but often tender and educational as well.
Bed Buddies - good or bad or somewhere in between? 2007-05-14 08:54:50 Most of you will know what I’m talking about here. Bed buddies are the new (or not so new depending on where you’re coming from) non-relationship. In a world where careers are the focus and time is minimal, many young singles today just don’t have the time a “real” relationship requires or are not willing to put time into a relationship. But we still have sexual needs. In a society where sexual freedom has become the norm for many (and I know that there are many who do not choose that norm in their lives) bed buddies are one of the options.
A bed buddy can be your best friend or just a friend that you feel comfortable with. The pluses are sexual fulfillment in a non-committed but assumedly safe manner. Usually, a bed buddy is someone that you feel comfortable with but doesn’t quite fit your long term requirements. I know some people who have continued in this kind of relationship for years. Sometimes it only lasts for a couple months. People adapt it
Getting Off 2007-05-11 07:53:55 Ok - everybody masturbates, whether they do it with great joy and as often as they can or whether it is with guilt and trepidation and only when they can no longer fight the urge. I feel bad for people whose masturbation is full of guilt but for many it is still that way. But that’s not what I wanted to talk about - I’ll save that for another time.
What I want to know is what do you think about when you masturbate? I always thought that everyone fantasized while they were masturbating but apparently that is not so. I especially hear a lot of men that say they just concentrate on getting off. Even for some women it is purely a means of “scratching an itch”. Not for me.
When I masturbate, I like to have the time to fully get into it. I like to know that I am alone and won’t be interrupted (although sometimes after writing an especially hot scene in a story I have to sneak into the bathroom with my magic bullet while the kids are busy elsewhere in the house a
Feather, Boas, and other Fun Accessories 2007-05-10 09:35:11 Toys don’t always have to have batteries you know. There are so many things that you can use to accessorize your love life and many of them can be carried home in a bag that isn’t black!
Try going to a vintage or used clothing store. You can find a plethora of items that are great for dressing up and role playing. Look for a nurse’s uniform and then take it home and adapt it. Give it peek a book holes. Turn the pants in to short shorts. Tie the top up under your breasts. Find some skanky sequined tank tops and be the trailer park girl of his fantasies. Get the highest heels you can find and some teeny tiny shorts or a micro mini skirt, add some overdone makeup and you can be a sleazy hooker that’s ready to do anything for the right price.
Used clothing and vintage stores can come up with some other surprising things. Look for wigs, feather boas, or masks as well. Your imagination will be soaring in no time!
Once you’ve found some fun stuff, get o
Masturbation Tools for Her and Him 2007-05-09 08:19:19 Even the most experienced masturbators like to change things up with a some masturbation tools. Girls are more known to use toys than guys I think but that doesn’t mean you guys should rule it out!
Here’s a couple toys I found that you might enjoy:
For the Guys:
This is one of the most basic masturbating toys for guys. With a realistic mouth, they can stroke themselves into an orgasm. Use a little bit of lube and it will add to your pleasure. I have a guy friend who says he loves this thing. When he wants to get into a fantasy he uses this. Because he’s not using his hand it helps get into the fantasy.
For the Girls:
The ultimate in portable masturbation! The panty pal attaches to any lingerie and has a cordless remote control and makes is virtually silent. Ever had an orgasm in public before? If you haven’t, May is the month to do it. Or try this with your partner. Giving up control can be great fun!
What’s your favorite toy?
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Happy Sugasming 2007-05-08 08:40:08 The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #78? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Coming into my own: How I learned to masturbate (rubytellsall.com…)
“Eventually I could no longer help myself, and I stealthily slipped my hand under my panties.”
A Hard Day’s Play - part 3 (curvaceousdee.blogspot.com…)
“Together, they create a new sensation, and I savour being able to literally taste their coupling.”
Sexist Sexy Hotel Kits (blog.babeland.com…)
“Kind of sexist? How about completely, amazingly, disgustingly sexist.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Dancers for Democracy (sugarbank.com…)
Editor’s Choice
On my 31st birthday, I gave my boyfriend two blowjobs… (lustylady.blogspot.com…)
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May is Masturbation Month 2007-05-07 08:44:38 May is masturbation month and I have to confess that I just remembered and am behind. I need to catch up!
One of the easiest and fastests ways for me to get off is in the shower. I used to have one of the wonderful shower heads that had multiple settings and the last one had three jet streams. That was awesome and was good for a real quickie! Now I don’t have it but a girl can make do if she has to.
I haven’t masturbated much in a long time because I have a partner who’s willing and ready to fulfill my needs at any given moment but I think I need to get back in touch with myself (so to speak!). My goals for Masturbation Month? To masturbate with my partner and to discover at least one new toy that I really like.
And here’s another thought - is it just my imagination or are guys masturbating less and girls masturbating more? It used to be that guys were the ones constantly jerking off in the stalls of their work office and girls were discreetly hiding it
Sugasm 2007-05-05 15:32:59 Sugasm: A Devilish DigestSugasm #74
Mon 9th Apr, 07
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #75? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
History: Marlene on the Wall (thismuse.blogspot.com…)
“3AM, showering, head, his hands soapy on my breasts, I’m thankful I’ve dropped weight, the water is warm and cool enough to feel like bed.”
Afternoon Debauchery (junohenry.wordpress.com…)
“Occasionally he’d push it further inside me, from where it had involuntarily escaped due to slickness and enthusiastic vibrations.”
Too Many Choices (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com…)
“We’d been naked most of the time since getting here on Friday, so I wasn’t surprised when I reached under her skirt and found that she wasn’t wearing any panties.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
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Let’s Play Games 2007-05-04 08:10:51
Ever feel like your love life is getting stale? It happens to the best of us you know. You get to know each other so well that you start to follow this little dance routine and even thought the music might be a little different, the dance moves are still the same. So, play some games.
When I was living with my good friend, Corri, we used to use a code word for sex. If I said, “Should I come home after work tonite?” she might say, “No, Jay and I are going to play Monopoly. Do you have something to do for awhile?” That was code for, “Jay’s coming over and I’d better be getting laid!”
And really, sex can be a ton of different games if you are a little bit creative. Try some of these:
~ Let him come home and find instructions written on your body with arrows to give directions. My favorite is “Insert tongue here” strategically placed.
~ Play strip poker or strip Uno or strip Ramoli. Winner gets a sex slave for the night. Read more:Games
Naughty Girls 2007-05-03 07:41:26
They were best friends first. Then they were lovers. And eventually, they were everything in between.
Shamira and Coco lived together in a tiny little apartment in the Bronx that was still more than they could afford. They pulled whatever jobs they could to get by. But their poverty meant nothing to them because at least here they could be who they were and they could love each other freely. Well, more freely than they could in the small town that they grew up in.
When they were kids, they played in the sandbox, letting their dark skin become coated in a thin layer of dust. When they were pre-teens, they chased the boys down the streets with sticks waving above their heads because the boys had been under the jungle gym trying to get a peek at their panties. When they were teenagers they discovered the joys of girl kisses and everything that came after that and they never turned back.
Not even after the pictures came out.
One afternoon, about a week before graduation, they wer Read more:Naughty
In Praise of Panties 2007-05-02 07:11:36
Is there anything better in this world than a pair of pretty new panties? Ok, maybe a new leather body suit with a matching collar might be better. But over all, panties are awesome.
I love the fact that when I need to splurge on myself I can buy a cute new thong or a pretty pair of lace cheekies (my personal favorite) without feeling guilty. After all, I need underwear right? And it didn’t cost much. I could have got those stilleto heels or that suede jacket. But it only cost me $5 to cure my shopping craving and I feel sexy as hell to boot.
Panties are a great pick me up because you can’t help feeling at least a little bit sexy when you know you’ve got a flirty new pair of panties on under your business suit. And when you get home, you can tantalize and tease you man a little bit by running around in just your panties while you look for your faveorite after-work lounging outfit. Think your man will have baseball on the brain then???
Panties deserve praise
Born to Be Sexy 2007-05-02 00:58:14 There are many different ways that people define sexy - curvy, thin, nice boobs, nice ass, long legs, great smile, etc. I think that is where our society goes wrong. They have to define everything. But the thing is most of all of our beliefs are in our mind and if its in our mind we tend to assume that it is in everyone else’s mind as well.
That simply isn’t true. Think about this for a second. What is your definition of a perfect 10? Get an image in your mind or think of someone you know or a celebrity that is your idea of a perfect 10. Now, the next time you are with your friends. See if even one of you can agree on who in the vacinity is a perfect 10. I’ll bet you can’t do it.
When you look at a girl and say, “Damn - now that is a pefect 10!” I can almost that one of your buddies will say, “You’ve got to be joking!” Some of the others will say, “Ya she’s kinda cute, but not a 10.” One or two of them mig
Restaurant Voyeur 2007-05-01 03:01:01 A long, long time ago I was a married university student with two toddlers who never got to have any fun. I studied by day, worked by night, and ran around after the kids in between. My work was partially because we needed the money and partially because I needed some kind of release. Oh, did I mention that I was also very sexually frustrated? Ya, a little.
So, every night that I’d go to work I flirted with the line cooks, I flirted with the bartender, and I flirted with the sexy waitress who had a mind and a body that wouldn’t stop. I had such a crush on her! But that’s another story.
Between the two of us we had most of the guys that worked there adjusting their packages in discomfort as they watched her slap my ass and listened to the sexual innuendo fly back and forth. But I wouldn’t cheat on my husband, even though I knew it was over, so I just got more frustrated.
One night after our shift had ended, her and I sat at the bar driving the bartende Read more:Voyeur
So Let’s Get Started 2007-04-30 15:31:52 I’d like to know what readers want to keep and what readers would like to see new. What are you into? What are your fetishes?
Blogging has the great advantage that you can express yourself anonymously. You can say, “Hey, that really turned me on!” or you can say, “That was hot but it would be even hotter if…”
Personally I have bit of a spanking fetish myself so you’ll likely see some of that here. But what else do you want? In my newsletter for my adult site I feature other blogs, pictures, and toys. Who doesn’t love toys? I have something juicy planned for tomorrow but meanwhile I need to know if there are features that Ivy or other bloggers here have started that you’d like me to continue. Input people - input!
I’ll post something else for you later today as well. Until then, be well all!
Introduction to me 2007-04-27 17:00:00 Hi all,
I’d like to take a moment to introduce myself to all of you. My name is Autumn Seave and I’ll be taking over Between the Sheets in Ivy’s absence. I’m sure that many of you will miss Ivy so I won’t even try to fill her shoes. Instead, I’ll try to give you something new - a little Autumn flavor!
So, you’re likely all wondering - who is this Autumn chick and what is going to make me want to continue reading this blog? How do I know she has a dirty mind like me? Well, you don’t yet know, but you will! I’m an erotica writer, webmistress, blogger, and overall sex enthusiast. I like all things sex related and love to talk about them. I’ve written many handfuls of stories, poetry, and even a couple of books. Read the first chapter of my book Sorority, or read my favorite story, Ride to the Cabin or listen to an audio erotica story, Thank You for Last Night. Those should give you a little taste of what I’m capab
Tragedy at Virgina Tech 2007-04-19 20:46:20 Hokie Spirit Memorial Fund
April 16, 2007, will be remembered as one of the darkest days in the history of the Virginia Tech community and the world beyond.
To remember and honor the victims of those tragic events, the university has established the Hokie Spirit Memorial Fund to aid in the healing process and generate financial support.
The fund will be used to cover expenses including but not limited to:
Grief counseling
Memorials
Communication expenses
Comfort expenses
Incidental needs
If you plan to give, please click the link below:
Steve Shickles
451 Press, LLC
Tragedy at Virginia Tech 2007-04-19 20:46:20 Hokie Spirit Memorial Fund
April 16, 2007, will be remembered as one of the darkest days in the history of the Virginia Tech community and the world beyond.
To remember and honor the victims of those tragic events, the university has established the Hokie Spirit Memorial Fund to aid in the healing process and generate financial support.
The fund will be used to cover expenses including but not limited to:
Grief counseling
Memorials
Communication expenses
Comfort expenses
Incidental needs
If you plan to give, please click the link below:
Steve Shickles
451 Press, LLC
So Long. 2007-04-16 15:44:11 My sweet, kind readers, I start the week with news and a farewell.
Unfortunately, my time here is spent, and I will no longer be writing to this site. Be sure and check back soon, though, as I’ve no doubt that a capable and interesting author will soon grace its pages.
My life is taking new twists and turns, not the least of which being a surprise pregnancy. Needless to say, a blessing that large will demand most of my time now, so I’m departing.
As I said earlier, I hope you continue to peruse the pages and try new things. There’s a whole world out there, begging you to jump in with both feet.
Warmest regards,
Ivy
Sugasm #73 2007-04-12 03:23:24 This Week’s Picks
Dawn Tryst (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“The soft noises intensify as he shifts himself once more so that he is turned towards her and his fingertips on her body are mimicking hers on his own.”
The G-Spot Mystery Revealed OR “ACK! Go Back to My Clit” (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
“So, since I’ve succumbed to the pressure, let me at least reveal to you the things you might not know about the g-spot, the things Cosmo doesn’t want you to know.”
M Hotel 2 (http://thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com)
“I watch his face as his hands pull me open, and then I close my eyes, my arms stretched above my head, as he lowers his face.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sexy Advertising (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
Farewell to Cain of “Bottoms Up!” (http://sexblogwelcome.blogspot.com)
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It Really IS All About You, Not Me (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
Kidnap Incorporated : Mitsy (part 2)
What’s YOUR Move? 2007-04-11 03:05:54 Men’s Health asked women to rate a range of seduction moves from 1 to 10. The results were:
1. Pinning me against the wall for a lengthy make-out session. (9.8)
This is pretty damn hot. There is nothing like feeling that your guy can’t wait and has to get some of you right then.
2. Touching and kissing me everywhere but the place I want most. (9.3)
Y’all, haven’t I said this before? Anticipation is soooooo sweet!!
3. Saying my name in bed. (8.9)
This should’ve been rated higher. Nothing sends me over the edge like hearing my name. LOUDLY.
4. Aggressive but playful kissing, like nibbling on my lower lip or earlobe. (8.6)
Niiiiice.
5. Slowly roaming my body with his fingertips. (8.4)
This kinda rolls into the anticipation theme, in my book. The roaming makes you center in on what you REALLY want his fingertips on.
Monday Menage e Trois 2007-04-10 03:48:50 You know the drill! Readers send me questions and I pick three to answer. Want your turn for some love from Ivy? Send me a love note.
Is faking an orgasm dishonest?
Hmm. This is a good question, and I’m not sure that I have the full answer here. Is it dishonest? Well, you ARE technically putting on an act. Will it hurt your partner? Probably not. But is it detrimental in the long run? Communication is so crucial in sex, and wouldn’t you rather have an HONEST O? While there is never anything wrong with an affected moan now and again (I’ve found that I can often trick myself into excitement), faking the orgasm is just applying a band-aid.
I’m a virgin, and this seems to freak guys out. They seem to think I’ll latch onto them forever if they pop my cherry. Should I lie about it to potential partners?
SERIOUSLY?! Wow. I would’ve thought that every man would’ve been fighting to be your conquestor; I would’ve assumed that they were
Bringing (Un)Sexy Back 2007-04-09 03:41:23 Zep over at In-Sect sent me this funny little idea:
Have you ever been in a situation where you don’t want to be turned-on? (Yes, it’s plausible even for me.) These Unsexy Image Cards are handy little turn-offs to keep you on-track.
You have your choice of genres of un-sexy, ranging from comics to food, but my personal favorite is the great Abe Vagoda:
Homework for the Weekend 2007-04-07 01:05:46 Alas, fair readers, last week’s homework is not wise this weekend, where our oppressive heat wave has given way to sudden lows in the 20s. So I strongly suggest NOT sleeping naked this weekend, unless you enjoy the shock of the monthly utility bill.
This weekend’s homework is somewhat inspired by an event in my week this week.
Take pictures of yourself.
Now, I don’t mean headshots. I don’t mean shots of the back of your head as you run from having set the self-timer. I mean, take sultry, scantily-clad pictures of yourself.
Be prepared; they will hard to look at for a minute. But you will learn your body as you go, and you will appreciate your body for all of the curves, points, and bendiness that you have. You never have to show these pictures to anyone else, but take them until you can look at one picture and think, “That’s damn sexy.”
There is nothing sexier than having someone take your picture, also. Knowing that someone is framing Read more:Homework
Sugasm #72 2007-04-05 05:11:30 This Week’s Picks
Big-Titted Muses (http://middleurge.blogspot.com)
“In the span of fifteen seconds, these two lovers instantly own the room, the camera, the cock.”
Make it happen (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“Dip two strawberries in the chocolate, eat one and feed me the other.”
Water, Water Everywhere… (http://thismuse.blogspot.com)
“He pauses there, feeling the weight in his hands, then soaps my breasts, rubbing the nipples between his fingers and thumb.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Nathalie Portman is Naked (http://sugarbank.com)
Editor’s Choice
Control (http://lafillemariee.blogspot.com)
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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Blind Leading the Deaf (http://talktovanessa.com)
The Early Days of Porn (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
More Sex Sometimes Leads to More Sex (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
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Add This to My Wish List. 2007-04-04 04:33:33 It’s not often that something sparks my interest. Okay, that’s not entirely true. I’m actually quite easy to intrigue, but it’s very rare that something HOLDS it. And ladies and gentlemen, I’ve found it.
One of my constant and major gripes with our sex industry is that it is too often geared toward men. The reason for this is mainly monetary; men provide 85% of the benjamins in the sex world. (And don’t worry ladies; that tide has been turning steadily over the past few years, and I can only hope it will continue to do so.) Back to my gripe: I want to see guys in porn.
And I don’t mean I want to see thin, too-attractive men. I know those men are not targeted to me. And, quite frankly, I don’t want some piece of meat-man to come in, pump-spray and then walk away.
I want to see guys get off. That’s really it, in a nutshell.
I thought about this the other night, when he whispered, “Show me that pussy, c’mon.”
Monday Menage e Trois 2007-04-03 04:43:04 You know the drill! Readers send me questions and I pick three to answer. Want your turn for some love from Ivy? Send me a love note.
I have a crush on a waitress at a restaurant. I want to ask her out, but I’m worried she gets hit on by lots of customers. How do I avoid coming across as a sleazy cliché?
Oooh, good question. I was a server for MANY years, and it was always a fine line. Truth? Be yourself. Visit often.. That sounds flippant, but if you become one of her “regulars” and she knows you, you’ve won a place in her heart. Oh.. and tip well.
I asked the woman I’ve been dating about her sexual history, but she refuses to talk about it. Should I be nervous? Is she obligated to tell me?
Is she obligated? No. Should she share anything medically crucial with you? Most definitely. Would I be wary of someone who is comfortable putting my health at risk so they can save themselves a tad of pride? Yes, I would. And I strongly suggest you re
Breathe Me In. 2007-04-02 04:55:13 I had to snicker when I overheard your new conquest responding to a comment about her fragrance. It tickled all parts of me when she offered up the name of the Victoria’s Secret scent she thought she had made her own.
I remember, distinctly, your breath on the back of my neck in the darkened balcony as you inhaled me and begged me to tell you what I was wearing. The scent of it, you growled, was making you insane. You felt insatiable for the musky scent, you said.
And you wanted to buy some for your wife.
I smiled and told you.
And it sounds like you’re trying to make every woman you ever touch smell just like me. perfume, scent, insatiable
Homework for the Weekend 2007-03-31 04:39:33 My homework this weekend is inspired by the sudden and intense heat-wave that has struck much of the south this week. It is one of my favorite things to do during the summer, and it will make you so much more aware of your skin.
Sleep naked.
I love this homework assignment because it requires very little effort on your part; it’s free, you already have all of the tools you need, and you can benefit from it immediately. It also is a very freeing experience to not allow yourself to hide behind anything, and I guarantee you’ll sleep better.
It also helps to wake up in a happy mood.
Really want to enhance the experience? Treat yourself to a luxurious experience by preparing a bit beforehand. Take a long, warm bath or shower, and put clean sheets on the bed before you climb in. (And, as always, feel free to dirty them up as soon as you get comfortable.)
Have a fantastic weekend! naked, sleep, between the sheets, bath
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Hold it Against Me. Please. 2007-03-30 05:03:06 The sound of you breathing still makes me shiver.
I was young, and although I was far from naive, I most definitely had never had the pleasure of something called a “grudge fuck” before. My encounters were far too fleeting to ever had led to anything more than a night, and this was new to me.
You were pacing in my bedroom, furious at my accusations and even more angry that I was right. You had left your lady to be with me, and yet I dare hold you accountable for you being an hour later than you promised? How dare I? Your furor was obvious to even the neighbors; your voice found no boundary in the thin walls. I remained unmoving in my bed, shrouded by the darkness (you were not even worth me turning the light on), and sitting up on my elbows.
Your anger continued on, and I began to rethink what I would do if you suddenly turned violent. You never had, and in truth you never would, but your sudden rise to anger made me wonder. I eyed the doorway to my bedroom, the on
A Reader’s Request 2007-03-28 02:26:22 A young reader emailed me this weekend regarding a certain aspect of foreplay: cunnilingus. I emailed her back some quick tips, and she admitted that more information would be welcome, so here! Ask, and ye shall receive.
The quick tips that I shared with our reader certainly apply to all of my readers, and this particular tip applies to both the ladies AND the gentlement. My tip? Eat lots of fruits. Fruit has natural sugars that break down and actually alter your “taste” down under, and have also been said to improve smells as well. (Although, ladies, to be honest, if a man complains about the smell, he’s not worth your time.) While any juicy fruit will work, kiwis and mangoes have specifically been favorites for this. Don’t expect a sudden change; sometimes it will take 24-48 hours to notice a difference.
And let me be quite honest, it will not change it dramatically. It is, after all, pussy.. not a lollypop.
Make sure your man has a “wet”
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